Lucas：你需要找到一个很好的平衡点，既让自己开心，而这对你的另一半而言又是最好的。
LUCAS: you have to find that fine balance between what makes you happy and what's best for the partnership.
这可以帮助您确定是否一个人（举例而言）预期要占用您一半的时间，以及另外三个人是否也做同样的预期。
This can help you determine whether one person, for instance, expects half your time—and whether the other three expect that as well.
只花一半的心思在孩子身上对她们而言是不公平的。
It is not fair to kids to be giving them just half of your attention.
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