斯彭德总结说，在男女混合的班级里，如果女孩像男孩一样吵闹、爱出风头，就会被认为是“不淑女”；如果她们温顺、安静，就会被人忽视。

Spender concludes that, in mixed classes, if the girls are as boisterous and pushy as the boys, they are considered "unladylike", if they are docile and quiet, they are ignored.

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大山：女队员像男孩一样善战吗？

Dashan: Do the girls on the team play as aggressively as the boys?

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玛丽是个像男孩一样的女孩。

Mary is a boy of a girl.

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The boy's solitude is like the mower's.

这个男孩的孤独就像割草者一样。

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