你能做的最好的事情是得到这样一些跟随者，他们仿效你的行为，成为你所希望的那种人。

The best thing you can do is to get followers to mirror your actions by being what you wish them to be.

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就像在欧洲，当瑞安航空第一次进入这个领域改变欧洲人的旅游方式时，亚航已经能够让我们拥有自己所希望的工作和生活方式了。

Just like in Europe, when RyanAir first entered the picture and changed the way Europeans travelled, it is enabling us to work and live the way we want to.

youdao

如果欧洲的领导人同意的一体化程度比选民所希望的要深，那么选民的激烈反应可能会使欧盟分崩离析，而这恰恰是他们努力避免的情况。

If Europe's leaders sign up for a level of integration deeper than voters want, the backlash could split the EU apart-exactly the outcome they are trying to avoid.

youdao

So I am willing to introduce these ideas but A, because it's not my training and people who are focusing on cultural differences will do a much better job than I do; and second, because what I hope to look into is the universal, things are common across cultures.

所以我想介绍这些观点，但是首先，因为这不是我的专业,研究文化差异的人会比我做得更好;,其次，因为我所希望研究的是普遍事物，不同文化中普遍的东西。

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