真相是我们无法拥有任何人在我们尚不能接受改变的自己，同时无助的依赖于拥有本身以及认为爱人就是那个需要拥有和抱住的人。

The truth is, we can't have anyone, when we can't even cling on to our changing selves, while we cling helplessly to clinging itself, to the idea that the beloved is someone to have and to hold.

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不可否认的，伏都教有一个让很多非其信徒的人不能接受的方面：动物献祭的流行。

One aspect of Vodou that, undeniably, disturbs many non-practitioners is the prevalence of animal sacrifice.

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是呀，好象这是很普遍的事。 原来在美国还是有很多人觉得不能接受，他们觉得去看心理医生的都是有些问题，脑筋不太正常的人吧！

LL: It is more acceptable nowadays, but a lot of people are still very uncomfortable about the idea of seeing a shrink.

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