There's no reason you should refer to yourself as a wife or mother at all, of course.

当然，你完全没理由把自己当做妻子或母亲。

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No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed indeed.

成功的男人背后总有一个优秀的女人。不是妻子就是母亲，如果两个都是，那他确实享受着双倍福分。

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Traditionally, Japanese men are rarely seen in the kitchen, leaving it to their wife or mother to make their meals and eating out if there were no females around to cook for them.

传统来说，日本男人很少下厨房，做饭这项家务通常都是留给妻子或母亲，要是家里没有女人做饭，他们便选择去餐馆吃。

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The delicious singing of the mother or of the young wife at work or of the girl sewing or washing Each singing what belongs to him or her, and to none else;

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That makes her an employer, not a wife or mother.

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But these symptoms may differ for your wife, mother or sister because women do not always experience the same heart attack symptoms as men.

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Ultimately, rather than listening to his wife, his mother, or his uncle, Robb comes upon his own brilliant plan: to take Casterly Rock, home of the Lannisters.

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