When you deal with the problem of emotions, you should learn not only how to control them but also how to accept them and manage the guilt and anguish arising from them.

所以当你处理情绪问题时，你不仅要学会如何控制它们，还要学会如何接受它们，并应对由此产生的内疚和痛苦。

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Don't superheat the anger of the mass. Otherwise you will not be able to control them.

不要过分煽动群众愤怒的情绪。否则你将无法控制他们。

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But they knew how to control them too.

而且他们知道如何控制它们。

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A more common way to deal with weeds is to control them enough so that the land can be used for planting.

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One group of children was a control group; the second group was taught to think back to experience that make them laugh or smile.

一群小孩组成对照组;,有人教第二组小孩回想,让他们大笑或微笑的经历。

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President Pierce found it difficult to control them.

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They have already clashed twice with the police, who used tear-gas to control them.

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It was also that the commission's president, Jacques Santer, was too weak to control them.

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He refuses to toe the Republican line on guns, and has sometimes voted to control them.

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