What you're describing is a classic case of "passive aggressive" behavior.

你上面所描述的是一种典型的“消极抵抗”行为。

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Unless maybe you prefer Edward's dishonest, passive aggressive way of dealing with problems.

除非你更喜欢Edward那种不诚实而又被动的解决问题的方式。

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"Passive aggressive people will say yes to your face and stab you in the back," she says.

她说：“消极对抗型的人当面同意你的观点，却可能在背后给你一刀。”

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Make sure you are balancing your communication style so that it is not too aggressive or too passive aggressive.

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For example, giving someone the silent treatment (or withholding information you know somebody critically needs) is a passive aggressive behavior.

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Think of it as a more passive aggressive version of those violent parent outbursts that were so prevalent a decade ago.

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