Or are you ignoring it because it makes you uncomfortable, or you don't like it, or it's not what you wanted to hear?

还是，因为这个建议让你觉得不舒服、你不喜欢这个建议、或者它不是你想听到的那个建议？

youdao

It's bad enough not getting what we want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of a journey that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.

得不到自己想要的已经够糟糕了，更糟糕的是，在你人生旅程的终点，发觉你所追求的，从来不是你真正想要的。

youdao