正如贾斯汀文章里问的，“为什么单身的女孩儿爱找已婚男人呢？”已婚男人确实比其他男人要更有魅力。

As our own Justin Prugh covered in his article, Why Do Single women Like Taken men, married men are more attractive to other women.

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女性穿红色不仅看起来更有魅力，而且研究显示，这也能使她身边的男性更殷勤、更爱调情，而且更想接近她。

Not only is a lady in red deemed more attractive, research shows that it makes the men around her more attentive, flirtatious - and wanting to move closer.

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我有魅力，但不是人见人爱。

I am attractive, but not everyone would see me as their type.

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So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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