如果你听从建议并采取行动，不仅能拥有人见人爱的魅力，还能同时保持自己的价值和原则。

If you let that advice guide your actions, you'll develop that charisma that makes people want to be around you while also staying true to your own values and principles.

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女性穿红色不仅看起来更有魅力，而且研究显示，这也能使她身边的男性更殷勤、更爱调情，而且更想接近她。

Not only is a lady in red deemed more attractive, research shows that it makes the men around her more attentive, flirtatious - and wanting to move closer.

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崩溃暗示着清白的彻底丧失，这种美好的天赋被知识与生活的敌人所摧毁。 丰富的爱与热情，清白就是以自然的存在魅力的与无意识的矛盾经验，不再具有悲剧性为快乐。

Rich ground for love and enthusiasm, innocence is delight in the natural charm of being and the unconscious experience of contradictions which no longer have a tragic character.

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So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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