幸福的伟大之处在于不存在竞争，供应十分灵活，因此只要不妨碍我的幸福，别人如何得到幸福并没有什么关系。

The great thing about happiness is that there is no competition for it: the supply is perfectly elastic, so what floats anyone's boat is fine so long as they desist from trying to rock mine.

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当你的生活不再平静，别人的生活也在面临着复杂的变化，而这也造成了你一定困扰之时，你却还在算计着如何得到幸福。

While your life isn't exactly serene, and the changes currently complicating the lives of others are also causing a certain you amount of disruption, you're still counting your blessings.

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如果你向100个人询问一些关于如何获得一个幸福婚姻的建议，我打赌你会得到100种不同的答案。

If you ask 100 people to share a bit of advice regarding how to make a happy marriage, I'll bet you'll get 100 different thoughts on the subject.

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