例如，选择一个你喜欢的话题，比如你感兴趣的话题或你亲近的人。

For example, choose a topic about something you like, such as something that interests you or someone who is close to you.

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如果你是一个喜欢表现身体亲近的人，你不应该害怕表现出来，或者彻底改变你的行为——只要事先征得对方允许就好了！

If you are someone who loves to show physical affection, you should not be afraid to show it or drastically change your behaviors—just ask for consent beforehand!

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焦虑的人需要亲近，他们喜欢亲密无间。

Anxious people need to be close; they love to be intimate.

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In our affections, in our caring, who we like, who we feel close to, whose pain bothers us, we are not indiscriminate.

我们对他人的喜爱，对他人的关心，我们喜欢谁，与谁亲近，在乎谁的痛苦，并非一视同仁的。

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