我总是专注于积极的一面，这样的消极的东西变得越来越小。

I always focus on the positive side, that way the negative things get smaller.

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每个人的生活都具有积极和消极的一面——而你是否幸福则取决于你所关注的东西上。

Everyone's life has positive and negative aspects - whether you're happy or not depends largely on which aspects you focus on.

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这情感可以依附于一座教堂，一个班级，或者仅仅表现在消极的一面，反对着这些那些，不需要一个积极的具体事物来寄托忠诚。

It can attach itself to a church or a class, or it may work in a merely negative sense, against something or other and without the need for any positive object of loyalty.

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So there is more even playing field instead of the 21:1 ratio, we are doing much more, focusing on the positive.

比起21比1的比率，两方更均衡，我们做得更多，除了专注于积极的一面。

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