也许我们两个人都在否认现实：我拒绝是因为我认为值得斗争；你拒绝现实是因为你认为不值得斗争。

Perhaps we are both in denial: I, because I think the fight is still worth having; you, because you think it isn't.

youdao

不只是外在的因素让我们自尊心不够或者觉得自己不好，也许你会觉得，这样自我否定的消极对话是你内心对自己的真正看法，那些都是生活中的琐事：我永远办不好这件事；我不值得；他们为什么想帮我？

Maybe you think all the negative-self talk is your way of being real with yourself. Little things like: I’ll never get it done, I don’t deserve that, why would they want to help me?

youdao

我不值得你对我那么好……也许我让你感触很抵牾，你显着可以不答理我，但你为什么要主动来找我？

I do not deserve you, so good to me … maybe I will let you have mixed feelings about, you obviously can not ignore me, but why you should take the initiative to come to see me?

youdao