也许我们两个人都在否认现实:我拒绝是因为我认为值得斗争;你拒绝现实是因为你认为不值得斗争。
Perhaps we are both in denial: I, because I think the fight is still worth having; you, because you think it isn't.
不只是外在的因素让我们自尊心不够或者觉得自己不好,也许你会觉得,这样自我否定的消极对话是你内心对自己的真正看法,那些都是生活中的琐事:我永远办不好这件事;我不值得;他们为什么想帮我?
Maybe you think all the negative-self talk is your way of being real with yourself. Little things like: I’ll never get it done, I don’t deserve that, why would they want to help me?
我不值得你对我那么好……也许我让你感触很抵牾,你显着可以不答理我,但你为什么要主动来找我?
I do not deserve you, so good to me … maybe I will let you have mixed feelings about, you obviously can not ignore me, but why you should take the initiative to come to see me?
我不值得你对我那么好……也许我让你感触很抵牾,你显着可以不答理我,但你为什么要主动来找我?
I do not deserve you, so good to me … maybe I will let you have mixed feelings about, you obviously can not ignore me, but why you should take the initiative to come to see me?
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