不要把目标定在别人认为最重要的情情上。

Don't set your goals by what other people consider important.

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那些缺乏共情能力去透过现象看本质的人就会说我不会共情，说我不能从他人的角度看问题，说我没有感情。

And people without the empathy to see what’s going on below the surface would call me unempathetic, incapable of seeing things from other points of view, and without feeling.

youdao

女性认为共情较为重要，而且会将家人与朋友的疾病引为共情影响因素。

Women tended to rate empathy higher in importance and to cite illness in family and friends as affecting empathy.

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