In fact, he claims, he was so far from such debauchery that he had devoted his entire early life to the ideal of virginity.

他声称，事实上他离放荡还差远了,因为他年轻时完全沉浸于贞操理想中。

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And then after I leave and I say, "Oh, I should have made eye contact with that person.

然后等我走远时，我想，”我应该和他有眼神接触的。

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And later on, when we stop giving ourselves the permission to be human when the become so important, we begin to realize that other people are watching us and evaluating us constantly and we think they do so much more than they actually do.

后来当我们停止准许自己为人时,当表象变得很重要时，当我们开始发觉其他人在看我们时,时刻评价我们时,人们远没我们以为的那么注意我们。

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