On 223 we find out that Mona, Lolita's friend from the play, her baby sibling--we're not told whether it's a boy or girl--dies, and we see it in one of those parentheticals, 223. This is Mona's letter.

在223页我们发现莫娜，洛丽塔在演出中认识的朋友，她未出世的,我们不知道是弟弟还是妹妹,死去了，我们在一句附言中,发现了这一点，223页。

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It's almost like what you looked for in a Boy Scout or a Girl Scout.

这就像对男童军,或女童军的要求

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It doesn't have every potential, it's a boy or a girl, it's not going to go back, but it has lots of potential in that eventually when it becomes an adult it could become a cellist, or a biologist, or an auto mechanic, or a biomedical engineer, all those potentials are still there.

但不是全部,比如性别已有定论,无法改变,但还是有很多潜能,当孩子长大,他可以成为大提琴家,生物学家,机械师或者生物医学工程师,他仍有所有的潜能

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