试着通过问问题来接近他们。

Try to get close to them by asking questions.

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你可以通过问自己一些问题来判断自己什么时候越过了顶峰，什么时候处于下坡。

You can tell when you are over the top and on the downward slope, by asking yourself a number of questions.

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他们通过问这样的问题来衡量意义，如：“你觉得你的生活有方向感或意义感的频率有多高？”

They measured meaning by asking questions like "How often did you feel that your life has a sense of direction or meaning to it?"

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And if you come and ask a question that you could have easily answered by doing the reading, coming to lecture, or using Google, they're going to have less patience.

所以如果你过来仅仅是问一个,你能很轻松的,通过阅读、上课、或者，在谷歌上搜索就能得到答案的问题，他们会失去耐心的。

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And I think you can test that by asking the question: if you could educate a child by the age of six.

你们可以通过,问这个问题来验证：,你能教育6岁的孩子吗。

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But by doing some science fiction experiments, we can take them apart and ask ourselves, Which one do I think is me?

但通过做一些科幻实验，我们可以把它们分开，并问自己，我认为哪一个才是我？

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