只要跟着兴趣走，做自己喜欢的事，你便能轻松获取专业知识，这会令你心情愉悦，同时与众不同。

Just following a hobby and doing something you like can easily give you the expertise that make you happy and special.

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相反去想一些积极的东西，在他们和你说话的时候，把注意力集中在那上面，这会令你看上去有一些神情恍惚，可是比难过要好。

Try to think of something positive instead and focus on that while they're talking to you, it'll make you look a bit dreamy but it's better than being miserable.

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