例如，如果我需要一辆自行车，因为我的车还摆在商店里（估计是无力购买的意思，译者按），我通常会还以报答的关心，如看孩子或帮他们购买食品杂货。

For instance if I need a ride because my car is in the shop, we usually set up a return favor like babysitting or doing their grocery shopping for them.

youdao

因为你算老几，去告诉她，她需要帮助当她自己不需要帮助的时候，而且还帮她得到答案。

And in that case you should butt out, too, because who are you to tell her she needs help when she doesn't want it and then go get it for her anyway?

youdao