首先对比分析行为与参照点之间的时间关系，这个参照点包括说话时刻和其他时刻。

At first, the comparative study of the temporal relationship between actions and reference is analyzed. "reference" here refers to speech time and the time not for speech.

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对许多人来说，在这一激动人心的时刻，说什么并不重要，重要的是看说话的人是谁。

For many, the thrill of the moment lay not in what he said, but in who he was.

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你的太太需要你全神贯注地听，她希望在她说话的时候你看着她的眼睛，放下手中的报纸，关掉电话，聆听她的心……感受她的伤痛……时刻在那里支持她。

She wants you to look at her when she is talking. She wants you to put down the newspaper and turn off the TV and hear her heart … feel her pain … and just be there for her.

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