去跟他,如果他的行为笨拙而不是告诉他,你是那种紧张,你真的喜欢他,而你只是喜欢它脱口的遗憾。
Go talk to him and if he ACTS awkward than tell him you were kind of nervous and that you really like him and that your sorry for just blurting it out like that.
一些人只是行为笨拙(比如我),总会不小心把酒溅到别人身上,经常打碎杯子,撞到带有易碎物品的人(所有这些我都做过)。
Some people are just clumsy (me), so really can't help spilling drinks all over everyone, smashing glasses on a regular basis, bumping into people carrying delicate things (all me).
但是夫妻有能力去避免这些破坏性的行为(就像桑迪说的“以笨拙的方式来处理不同之处”)- - -有时候争执能治疗关系。
But for couples who are able to avoid that destructive behavior-or what Sandy calls "unskillful ways to deal with differences" -conflict from time to time can be like relationship therapy.
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