假设我是通过其他鬼鬼祟祟的方式发现的——看他的日志或是书信，虽然这些我都不可能实现，我对他了解甚少——这一切就都不一样了。
If I had discovered it through surreptitious means-reading his journals or letters, which I couldn't possibly have done, knowing him as little as I did-it would have been different.
诚然，孩子可能不明白究竟发生了什么，可是他们会感觉到一切都已经不一样了，并为此感到沮丧。 虽然你自己的情绪也很糟糕，可是还是需要给予孩子加倍的关注。
Your baby does not, of course, understand much of what is going on, but she realizes the situation is different, is upset, and needs special attention at a time when it is hard for you to give it.
虽然我可以回到夏尔，但一切都不一样了，因为我自己变了。
Though I may come to the Shire, it will not seem the same; for I shall not be the same.
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