当我们发现有人说谎,我们会生气,我们会感到在某种层面上被人背叛,亵渎,或者侮辱了,同时说谎者也被认为是虚伪的,有缺陷的,道德错误的。
When we find somebody lying, we get angry, we feel we've been betrayed or violated or insulted in some way, and the liar is regarded as deceptive, deficient, morally at fault.
你不会宽恕他的错误,你要纠正他。你不会虚伪地说“没关系”来满足他。
You don't condone his wrong ACTS, you correct him. You don't feed him with false "it's okay" s.
我的心更接近永恒的现实,虽然我完全明白,不能将虚伪的粗俗情感当成心灵的特质,而且心灵不成熟便易于导致严重的错误。
The heart is closer to everlasting reality, although I am fully aware that I must not let raw emotion masquerade as a heart quality, and that the immature heart can make serious errors.
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