可是我苦恼过，因为你不肯来。

But I have been vexed, because you wouldn't come.

youdao

我们都曾为艰难的抉择苦恼过。

We've all agonized over difficult decisions.

youdao

你曾为飞机上宝贝的哭闹苦恼过吗？想想你的妈妈吧。

How you ever feel annoyed with the crying babies on the plane? Think again about your mother.

youdao

We have "unhappy consciousness," unhappy consciousness which is the result of estrangement, or Verfremdung, and which drives us too far away from the thing that we're looking at.

我们有了苦恼意识,苦恼意识源于疏远，又使我们距离所观之物过远。

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