这是因为以下三个原因：第一，小偷只偷我的东西，而没有伤害我；其次，小偷偷走了我的一些东西，而不是我所有的东西；第三，对我来说最幸运的是，成为小偷的是那个人，不是我。

This is because of the following three reasons: Firstly, the thief only stole things from me but did not hurt me at all; secondly, the thief has stolen some of my things instead of all my things; thirdly, most luckily for me, it was the man rather than me who became a thief.

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她说，人们倾向于通过注意已知统计资料之外的特殊情况来将坏习惯合理化，例如“它还没有伤害到我，”或者“我的祖母终生吸烟而活到了90岁。”

People tend to justify bad habits, she says, by noting exceptions to known statistics, such as: "It hasn't hurt me yet, " or, "My grandmother smoked all her life and lived to be 90."

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Barrett博士说，“解释一下，仅仅尝试抑制自己的梦境而不去探究他们到底是关于什么是对你是没有伤害的。”

"Do the interpretive work first," says Dr. Barrett. "Just trying to suppress your dreams without exploring what they are about is doing them a disservice."

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