你如何做到这一点而不直接问别人?

How do you do this without directly asking the other person?

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如果你觉得你独自一人是快乐不起来的，那么你的自信就会减少，而更加依赖别人来获取快乐。

If you believe that you cannot be happy on your own, you will be less confident and more dependent on others for your happiness.

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上赶着【编者按：意为别人本没有要求或者请求做某事，而主动提出帮助等举动，带有吃力不讨好等嘲讽或讽刺的意味】提建议——不管你就觉得他会多么需要——都是一件耽误时间和精力的事。

Giving unsolicited advice to others—regardless of how much you feel that they need it—is a waste of time and energy.

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Specifically, what is it that American companies that, both then and now, still don't understand about China that you think you do and they don't?

美国公司对于中国的互联网行业，始终不甚了解,能否谈谈一些你知道而别人不知道的原因？

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In other words, we should not care what people say about us, but we should be prepared to develop qualities of self-containment, autonomy and independence from the influence that others can exercise over us.

换句话说，我们不应理会别人怎么说我们，而我们应准备好,发展自制的特质，自治与自主,排除他人,可能对我们的影响。

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These DPPs go back a long time but there began to be complaints about them because people said, well why is it, because I'm not an accredited investor, I can't get into real estate like these other people do?

PP由来已久,但现在人们开始抱怨,他们说,我不是可信投资者,为什么仅凭此门槛,而不让我像别人一样投资商业地产呢

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