然而，女性似乎也善于幻想，20%的女性说她们经常会梦见自己从未见过的人。

However, it seems women are just as capable of fantasy, as 20 percent say they frequently dream about people they have never met.

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你为这个人或事套上一个幻想，然后努力让现实符合你的幻想，这经常会以失望告终。

You set up an idealized version of the thing (or person) and then try to fit the reality into this ideal, and are often disappointed.

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