回到家,我想到了用“矛盾行为”不让斯科特在我做饭时缠着我。
At home, I came up with incompatible behaviors for Scott to keep him from crowding me while I cooked.
矛盾的是,正是这些孩子的父母促成了这种苛求的行为,他们错误地认为,只要给了孩子他们所能给予的一切,孩子就会快乐。
Paradoxically, the parents of such children encourage this demanding behavior in the mistaken belief that by giving their children everything they can their children will be happy.
转移行为的发生是因为动物有两种相互冲突的驱动力——两种相互矛盾的冲动,在这种情况下,就是恐惧和饥饿。
Displacement occurs because the animal's got two conflicting drives—two competing urges, in this case, fear and hunger.
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