我想我真正爱的是岩石本身。

I think what I love truly is rock itself.

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她说她真正爱的不是埃德加而是希斯·克里夫。

She says that she does not really love Edgar but Heathcliff.

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直到一年后，我才意识到她真正爱的人是我的室友John。

It wasn't until a year later that I realized that the person she really loved was my roommate John.

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So, this is the sadness of the novel.It's this unrequited love; Dean is never capable of loving Sal in the same way that Sal loves Dean.

所以这也是这本小说的悲伤，是这个无回报的爱情;,迪安从没能真正像萨尔爱他一样爱过萨尔。

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So, he finally realizes that Sal actually has a specific love for him, not caring about him somehow in principle, which is the way of course that Dean cares.

所以最后他了解到萨尔对自己有真正爱的付出，原则上是不能在乎的，但迪安当然很在乎。

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All right. Now the social psychology of love really has been a social psychology of attraction.

社会心理学中的爱,真正而言，应该是吸引。

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