害怕难堪以及受到来自同龄人、甚至父母的压力，往往使男孩子不愿承认自己受到了欺负。
The fear of embarrassment and pressure from peers and even parents, often prevent boys from admitting they're being bullied.
他们往往相信，自己的甚至是先祖的过错，使他们整个家族失去了作神儿女的资格。
They tend to believe that their mistakes, and even those of their ancestors, disqualify them from adoption by God.
由此可见，思维定势往往使我们的思路变得狭窄，甚至让我们无法发现一些简单的东西。
Mind-set, therefore, often make our thoughts become narrow, even that we are unable to find some simple things.
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