爱是付出，不是占有。5。

Love is not getting but giving.

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你可以通过完成不可能的事来展现你珍惜自己的爱，没有危险与勇气，你怎知爱是值得付出的。

You can treasure your love by waging it against the rules, without dangers and courage, how do you know your love is worth loving?

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So, he finally realizes that Sal actually has a specific love for him, not caring about him somehow in principle, which is the way of course that Dean cares.

所以最后他了解到萨尔对自己有真正爱的付出，原则上是不能在乎的，但迪安当然很在乎。

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