我爱上了某人了，糟糕！

I love someone, and I am dashed!

youdao

如果你爱上了某人，不要去爱，这是最兴奋的。

If you fall in love with someone and never do it, it's much more exciting.

youdao

当我们还没有爱上某人的时候，我们常常以为自己爱上了某人。

Sometimes we think we love when we don't love.

youdao

So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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