我要采取这样的行动，我将会击败这个疾病”，你是从你的守护、防卫和消极情绪的立场出发，牢牢地抓住了那个疾病。

I‘ll take this action and I‘ll defeat this illness“, you are from your position of guardedness and defensiveness and negative emotion holding on to that illness.

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当男人过于亲近没有抽离时，常见的症状就是情绪化、性急、消极和防卫。

When a man gets too close and doesn't pull away, common symptoms are increased moodiness, irritability, passiveness, and defensiveness.

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