有韧性的人怀着乐观思维，往往把每一个问题都当作挑战，当作任何一种改进的机会，或者当作个人成长的机会。
Resilient people who think positively tend to treat every problem as a challenge, a chance for improvement of any kind, or as an opportunity for personal growth.
也许最重要的是，有韧性的孩子有心理学家所说的“内控性格”：他们相信，对个人成就起作用的是他们自己，而不是环境。
Perhaps most importantly, the resilient children had what psychologists call an "internal locus of control" : they believed that they, and not their circumstances, affected their achievements.
他们如此的有韧性，必需要再次经历曾经经历过的生活。
They're so resilient and have to be to live through what they've lived through.
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