现在我开始明白有许多人都使这家伙感到困惑，我将会是下一个成为难以理解和缺乏吸引力的人了。

Now I was coming to realize that a lot of people baffled this guy, and that I would be next to become incomprehensible and unattractive.

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一个有吸引力的家伙可以为谈话带来笑料。

An attractive guy is somebody who can bring fun and excitement to a conversation.

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男人，有品位和格调的女人真的不明白为什么有些家伙认为松垂的裤子是有吸引力的东西。

Men, us women with taste and style really don't know why some guys think their pants sagging down is somehow attractive.

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