首先要理解的也是最重要的一点是不论你做出什么行为，都不是每个人会对你做出积极反应。

One of the first and most important things to understand is that no matter what you do, not everybody is going to respond positively to you.

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作为父母，鼓舞孩子最重要。首先要协助他们学习，把他们当作冤家看待，将孩子的喜好最为本人的喜好，学会和孩子沟通，沟通是处理矛盾的独一方法。

First, to help them learn to treat them as friends, loving the child the most to their interests, learn and communicate with their children, communication is the only way to resolve conflicts.

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