当你舍弃某个关系，或放弃承诺时，通常是因为你不愿面对眼前的恐惧。

Often, you leave a relationship or break another commitment you have made because you don't want to deal with the fears that are coming up for you.

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比如说，当我决定放弃我的工作而全身心为目标制定指南写作的时候，我最先舍弃的是我的假期旅行。

For example, when I've decided to quit my job to write full time for Goal Setting College, one of the first things I cut down was my holiday travels.

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