欣然接收改变，但是不要摒弃你的个人理念。

Accept change, but don't let go of your personal beliefs.

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人性之善意味着你需要摒弃那些不能增加热情的友好的人际关系的不良习惯。

To have human kindness you must be free of habits that do not promote warm, friendly relationships.

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你可能还会觉得：“我必须摒弃那些对你未减轻的怒火，这样我们之间的爱才有可能变得更浓。”

You may even realize, “I have to let go of unrelieved anger to have any space for love to grow.

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That is to say, you're asking yourself, "Well, sure. You know what? I pride myself on this: I can factor out all forms of subjectivity. I really can be objective.

也就是说，你对自己说，你知道吗，我为我自己感到骄傲：,我可以摒弃一切形式的主观，我真的可以做到客观。

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