一个总是懂得感恩的人会比一个只会挑剔抱怨的人站得更稳。

One who can always find a reason to be grateful will always stand stronger than one who can only find a reason to complain.

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如果你发现他们的工作表现无可挑剔，那么你必须找出抱怨者的动机并消除他们的疑虑，不要让责备加深。

If you find that they are doing an excellent job, then you must figure out the complaining executive's motivations and resolve them. Do not let an accusation of this magnitude fester.

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所以将抱怨转化成一些有用的东西需要两个步骤，先是将挑剔的目光转向实际上可以做的一些事情，然后积极地行动。

So transforming complaining into something useful is a twofold process that begins with turning our critical eye to look at things we can actually do something about, and then taking positive action.

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