其实，真正的灵魂伴侣只是一面镜子，向你展示一切拖你后腿的种种因素，让你关注自我，从而改变自己的人生。

But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

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你的丈夫像是拿不定主意该怎么做或什么时候开始做。他像是被这种一切都要求特别的目的压倒——所以他一拖再拖。

Your husband likely had no idea what to do or where to begin. He was overwhelmed by the need to make it special-so he procrastinated.

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