我觉得我作为父亲（或母亲）完全不称职。

I felt totally inadequate as a parent.

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你必须问你的父亲或母亲。

You must ask one or other of your parents.

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当然，你完全没理由把自己当做妻子或母亲。

There's no reason you should refer to yourself as a wife or mother at all, of course.

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You would buy life insurance on both the husband and the wife -you might do different amounts; it's done by families with young children to protect them against the economic cost of the death of one of their parents.

夫妻双方都应该购买寿险,但两份保险的金额可以有所不同,这适用于有小孩子的家庭以弥补,因父亲或母亲去世而带来的经济损失

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So, you would expect a child who just grew up with a mother or just grew up to be a father--with a father to be in some sense psychologically damaged by that, failing to go through the normal psychosexual stages.

你会看到由单身母亲抚养长大的孩子,或由单身父亲抚养长大的孩子,在某种意义上,会因此而形成心理创伤，从而无法正常地经历所有的性心理阶段。

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The latency stage is they've gone through this huge thing with Mom and Dad, "fell in love with Mom, wanted to kill my father, dad was going to castrate me, " fell out of love with Mom, out of the sex business."

在潜伏期阶段,儿童不再纠缠于恋父或恋母情结，从“爱上母亲，想要弑父，父亲要阉割我“，过渡到，“不再恋母，不再对性感兴趣“

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