那些从不主动的男人一旦我采取主动就对我失去兴趣。

The men who never make the first move, automat lose interest on us when we take the initiative.

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没有任何不宜之举――事实上，在这方面倒常常是我采取主动。

There was no untoward behaviour in fact, I've often had to make the first move in that department.

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如果你对自己说：“我正在浪费时间”，这不足以控制你的行为，采取更主动的一步。

If saying to yourself, "I'm wasting time," isn't enough to curb your behavior, take more proactive steps.

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