这就是为什么我要生活在穷乡僻壤。

That's why I'm going to live in the boonies.

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弗瑞德先生说：“你可以问为什么我要生活在沙漠中。

“You could argue, why even live in a desert?” Mr. Freed said.

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这就是我要的生活。

This is the life I want.

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It was very well received. You decided, "for my next project I am going to write about my life." You've had a hard life, by the way.

你决定：，“我的下一本书要写我的生活”,顺便提一下，你的日子很贫苦。

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And the interesting point is many people who have this sort of experience, for whom their mortality has become vivid, they often say,I've got to change my life.

而且有趣的是很多拥有这种经验的人，对必死性的了解更为深刻的人，通常会说，我要改变我的生活。

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So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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