从收到的诸多的女士来信，我发现问题的关键是欠缺沟通交往能力，没有自尊心。

In all the letters I get from women, the core issue is an inability to connect and a lack of self-worth.

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这其中的关键在于，当你暗自说，“啊，我懂了”的时候，深入到新闻中去，平衡你的怀疑、好奇心和常识。

The key is going deeper into the news, leveraging your skepticism and curiosity and common sense toward that moment when you can say to yourself, "Ah, I get it."

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我从来不执迷于情人节，你为挑选合适的礼物而绞尽脑汁，但关键是你的心，而不是广告中的德比尔斯钻石。

I've never really believed in Valentine's Day. You're anxious about buying the right gift, but it's really about your heart, not a TV commercial for De Beers diamonds.

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