我感兴趣的是她想和你以及她妹妹保持联系却又疏远你们的这种矛盾心理。 我在想她是希望与你们更坦诚的沟通，但又害怕沟通后的结果。

I am interested that she wants contact with you and her sister and then retreats and I am wondering whether she wants to be more open with you both but is then afraid of the consequences.

youdao

我——和你一样——以一个纯净的、没有污点的形态来到这个世界，当我们的生命走向尽头的时候，我们，还会保持着这样纯洁没有污点的形态离开。

I came into this world - like you - a pure, unblemished being. And when I come to the conclusion of this earthly life, I will remain - like you - pure, unblemished spiritual being.

youdao

在最近的约15年里，我已分享了很多和你们一起学习到的东西，所以你们或许知道最好的就是保持一定的身体质量指数(BMI) (BMI参考值在25或更低)。

Over the last 15 years or so, I've Shared a lot of what I've learned with you, so you probably know that maintaining a certain Body Mass Index (BMI) is best. (a BMI of 25 or under, FYI.)

youdao

I don't want to really know that much about you, I don't want to really share anything of me with you, but I am committed to maintaining this physical attraction to you" Well, that's what Sternberg calls "fatuous love."

关于你，我不想了解太多，也不想和你分享我的秘密，但是我承诺,和你保持这种肉体关系“,斯腾伯格把这种感情叫做愚蠢式爱情“

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