如果“每个人都像那样”——如果每个人都一定像那样——我们不需要为自己的自私行为感到自责，也不需要努力去改变它。
If "everybody is like that" - if everybody must be like that - we need not feel guilty about our own self-interested behavior or try to change it.
我们中间有很多人对各种失去感到自责，因此我们常常觉得我们不该经历这样那样的痛苦。
Because many of us feel responsible for the loss, we often don't feel we deserve to grieve.
如果你感到自责，即使是一点点的自责，也要让我们知道。
If you are blaming yourself, even a little bit, please let us know.
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