有时我们不得不选择似乎不和谐的事。

You have to make choices that may seem unbalanced at times.

youdao

我想我们是的，因为我们只能有一个伴侣，我们不得不选择。

I think we should be, as we can have only one, we have to choose.

youdao

我们为不得不这么做而感到难过，但是现在没有其他的选择。

We are very sad to have to do this, but there is no other alternative now.

youdao

Okay. So that's the basic distinction and, as I say, as far as I can see it's irreconcilable so it leaves us with a choice that really does have to be made, and it's a choice which looms over a course in literary theory and coming to understand the tradition of literary theory.

这就是二者基本的不同之处，我以前说过，只要二者不能兼容,我们就不得不从中选择一个，这个选择将会一直出现在文学理论课,和理解文学理论传统的过程中。

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