斯彭德总结说，在男女混合的班级里，如果女孩像男孩一样吵闹、爱出风头，就会被认为是“不淑女”；如果她们温顺、安静，就会被人忽视。
Spender concludes that, in mixed classes, if the girls are as boisterous and pushy as the boys, they are considered "unladylike", if they are docile and quiet, they are ignored.
当各种形式的虐待和忽视发生在儿童身上时，他们将得不到爱，这时会有两件事发生。
When through various forms of abuse and neglect a child fails to get this mirror of love, two things happen.
一个人的确可能会伤害或忽视他所爱的人。从这个意义上说，爱包含着我要为我(的生活方式)对你的影响承担一定的责任。
A lover does have the capacity to hurt or neglect the loved one, and in this sense I see that love entails and acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you.
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